What I call emotional attraction is just as important as the physical chemistry.
A man feels emotional attraction for a woman when he sees something special about a woman’s PERSONALITY, and he suddenly recognizes her as unique.
A guy doesn’t fall in love with an Ivy League degree, a six-figure income, and an impressive job title. Whether you downplay your success, or rely on it to draw men to you, the truth is that neither option will attract a man to you or make or break your relationship in the end.
It’s the EXPERIENCE you create together that matters.
They are smart, hard-working, and responsible and in my experience working with them, usually very physically attractive. They are low maintenance, self-supporting, and independent. But alas, it always seems to be the successful woman that comes to me seeking dating help.
After working with several dozens of successful women throughout my matchmaking and dating coaching career, I have discovered many patterns that cause their lack of success with dating, and no, they are not what you think. Too Picky – I have found that although most single women are too picky, the vast majority of successful single women are far more picky than the average woman. They have a laundry list of awesome traits that should make them have a line of suitors to their door. So with the combination of being too picky and having limited choices, it’s a recipe for perpetual singledom.
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Specific examples of off-putting dating behavior is how some of these women will obviously screen and question men like the police, order them around, or point out every flaw and mistake the man may make.
What emotions are you inspiring in the man in your life?
Is your own success as a woman really threatening men?
ANSWER: If you’re like lots of women I’ve talked to, then it’s your experience that men overwhelmingly seem to go for the “B” women – women who don’t really have their life together in some important ways. Here are two reasons a man might make the mistake of choosing a less “together” or successful woman over you.
1) Men Are Misreading You Does having a busy successful career change the way you act in love and relationships?