I have known several women who have had the misfortune of dating newly divorced men.They all say these fellows behave as if they just got out of prison.A new wardrobe, a new hairstyle, a red convertible, or losing ten pounds aren’t going to work in terms of finding your next relationship.They are a mile wide and an inch deep and you will only look silly and desperate to savvy women.Leaving their sexual deserts behind they seek comfort.The notion that an actual woman is connected to the body they desire to assuage their parched sexuality is irrelevant.I was shocked that she was so conscious of the pitfalls of dating newly divorced men until I realized she had probably learned her lessons the hard way. Run, don’t walk away from a man who just left a relationship. Stay home and think about your part in the recently failed relationship.Find another man or men who you can trust and talk with them about how you’re feeling.
I am working on trying to let it all go and just have a fond memory of us. I dated a couple of women but let them know early that I was unable to feel anything more than friendship for them.
A good quality blow-up doll would probably suffice and it might spare his next victim the chore of dumping them once they realize how emotionally damaged they are.
The cocktail of anger towards women, sexual repression, not doing the emotional work associated with the pain of divorce, realizing they are out of dating shape, and rarely having anyone to talk with about their feelings, serve to put a man’s sad, crumbled interior on display.
Feel the pain you are must be experiencing after a divorce.
Or live in denial instead and inflict yourself on the next woman you can convince you are over your divorce already.