Whatever rotation or turnover you had when you met the guy should remain the same until he has actually taken you to the tsimmer and announced.
It does not matter what he does aside of this or what he promises to do or if he promises that he loves you.
If you don’t have a harem of at least two other bitches, you are a loser.
If you can’t actually bring yourself to shag other dudes, you should at least have them on standby. You can take out your frustrations about being occasionally neglected by your main guy on them, and they will just love you more for this.
Now, before you accuse me of being bitter, remember that I am a big fan of Star Trek. They need you to treat them like you hate them so that the few seconds a month you show them any actual affection/mercy, they feel they’ve earned something important. Women with options are insanely hostile and neglectful.
Indeed many of them cope with life here in ways that are very understandable, but sometimes very harmful or at least counterproductive. In this context, I would like to inform any civil women out there who are single and coming to this hell hole to turn back now unless they are willing to be callous enough to take the following advice… In the category of things I wish I knew 10 years ago, I have been informed that one is not actually in a relationship with an Israeli man until he has taken her to a romantic “tsimmer” and introduced you to his friends/family as his girlfriend.
In Israel, if he has bought you a car and paid your tuition, but hasn’t taken you to a tsimmer and nobody in his social group knows you are officially in a relationship, he is just some dude you are shagging.
Oh, and about the shagging, if he is the only guy you are shagging, he must never know this.
Please note that the posts on The Blogs are contributed by third parties. I recently released a video on Tips for Dating Israeli Men.
The opinions, facts and any media content in them are presented solely by the authors, and neither The Times of Israel nor its partners assume any responsibility for them. While many people loved the video, especially American women and some men who are waiting for the version about dating Israeli women, I did get some interesting feedback.