I was a virgin, my wife was not, together we hadn't gotten much past second base, and neither of us had laid our kink cards on the table.We were (and still are) introverts with poor communication skills and anxiety/depression/mental-health issues.I fucked my husband on our first date because I wanted to see if he was any good. I also suffer from depression and anxiety, I'm on the autism spectrum, and I've experienced sexual trauma.I addressed my problems through counseling, medication, physical therapy, and even surgery.So I told her about my kink, fully expecting that it would result in the collapse of my marriage.We didn't speak about it for a week, and then she calmly asked me if I wanted to do this with her instead of just watching porn about it. I have some physical ailments that can make sex painful.You are just a few clicks away from pretty girls and hot guys who are dying to meet you.
I was a very experienced woman (five years as a swinger and partners numbering in the high double digits) when I first met the man who would become my husband. We also had an amazing friendship, and we were never as happy apart as we were together. We went from once a month to a couple times a week. It's not as frequent as it once was, but it's really good when we have it. Am I the first or the hundredth person to write in? I suspect you don't see it in your inbox very often because this isn't what most people would consider a problem and we don't want to waste your time!
Practice, Practice, Practice My sex life improved after marriage.
I am a straight male with a highly stigmatized kink.
I did allow for the possibility that my sample was skewed; people with good sex lives don't write to tell me everything's fine.
So I invited people whose so-so sex lives improved after the wedding to write in.