If a woman responds to you, she’s deciding that you are a potential mate.You only need to convey one thing: that meeting up will be a fun, easy going experience.If you’re seeking her approval with, “Please let me know when you’re around.” “Did you get my last text? So rather than take the risk of screwing things up by asking her out, you just continue chatting with her.Because if you invite her to do something and she says no, then you might lose that sweet, sweet attention. It’s not going to move a connection forward or towards intimacy.Every time you don’t follow up on a number, you’re throwing away your best shots for romance.
Like I said above, women know almost immediately whether or not romance is a possibility with a guy. Eventually they will find someone who’s serious about moving forward.You do that by having a couple lighthearted, silly, or playful messages to get a laugh.Once that’s been established, you need to push forward. Most women are in the “buying” mood while on the app and will make plans with a guy then and there.By swiping yes to each other, you both already accept you find each other attractive.A couple of short messages and an invitation to do something is all you need.Then we’ll create new rules that you must follow regardless of your doubt or fears.When you’re out at a bar, club, or event, notice how many women are looking around.New rule: “I will suggest meeting up with girls online by my 2nd-4th message.” The number one date recap I hear from guys goes something like this… We had so much in common, we laughed a lot, and had really good conversation. Now she won’t commit to coming out when I ask her for another date.” If they’re lucky, these guys end up getting an upfront rejection like, “I had a great time but I just don’t see us like that.” Most of the time, they don’t even get a response or the girl will never make concrete plans to meet up again until the guy gets the hint. So let me clear things up: It’s awesome that you had a friendly connection with a girl, but what about the sexual connection?Remember, you are on a , not a buddy-buddy hang out. A lot of you come to me saying, “I don’t have any potential women in my life.” When I ask about your methods, I often learn that you HAVE opportunities, you just don’t capitalize on them! Or, you’re just plain oblivious to the “green lights” you’re getting from women.You throw away your romantic prospects for a variety of reasons… Whatever it may be, you’re not getting the most out of your opportunities and sabotaging your own success.